toast to the assholes.

why does chivalry have to be dead? sometimes i wish we were still in the 1950’s when men opened doors for a lady and not because they wanted to get in between their legs but because it was what was supposed to be done. now a guy thinks it is enough to take a girl out ONE TIME and she will put out. news flash it’s not. i am not saying a girl will drop her panties the second you open the car door for her, but i am pretty sure you will get a lot farther if you treat a girl like a lady rather than making it completely apparent that you want to sleep with her. i have had this conversation with a lot of girls and we all seem to be on the same page, you might not want a girlfriend, but you still need to respect the girls you are trying to sleep with. if you have no respect for them, than you have no business talking to them.

i hate when my guy friends call girls bitches. why is it okay to refer to a girl as a bitch? we are people too. we don’t go around describing you to our friends saying “hey so last night i went on a date with some asshole..” or what about if girls just went around saying “daaaaaaamn look at that asshole,” all while grunting. we don’t do that and neither should you.

text messaging. or should i call it sexting.. there is a fine line when one should begin sexting a girl and when one should hold out. kinda like dating. a girl might give you her number and might be flirty with you but that doesn’t mean that she is going to send you a naked picture of herself. who started this and why do guys think it is okay to ask for one after three days of texting. no sorry that is not equivalent to three dates. you don’t know each other and it kinda makes a girl feel sleeeeezy. don’t get me wrong, everyone has their own prerogative, but i am pretty sure the overall consensus of my gender is on my side.

first hand experience: i started dating this guy. on paper he was everything you would want in a guy. before our third date he said the only way we would go out is if i slept over his house… so basically he propositioned me? need i say more, i cursed him out and never spoke to him again.

moral of the story? be a gentleman. i am not saying be a whimp, cause ew no one likes a softy, but open doors, walk on the side of the street where the cars are, hold a girls purse (and no, it doesn’t make you gay), walk her to her door at night, and don’t expect something in return. if you do those little things, you’ll get a lot further.. i promise.

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4 responses

  1. I think it’s a result of the society we live in — for instance, when the group of kids growing up today (the pre-teens) end up in the “dating age” they’ll have less self-respect than the age group before them, resulting in them treating women even more poorly than they do now. It’s not a generational thing b/c I’m sure people of all ages, whether teens, 20’s, 30’s or even early 40’s pull this kind of crap.

    Ultimately it comes down to having morals and values. Instead of kids being raised by their parents and/or people they can look up to — they’re being raised by Lady Gaga and Kanye West.

    On the other side of things, most women just don’t seem to appreciate a GOOD MAN these days. Some of the good men just give up and turn into assholes. Sucks but that’s just the way it is now.

  2. I COMPLETELY agree with Joe. Chivalry isn’t dead. Girls just need to weed through to find the good guys out there. The guys who treat women poorly do so because 1) it has worked for them in the past therefore will work for them in the future 2) girls seem to like it or 3) closet gay. Girls need to know what they deserve and go for it. Enough with the games.

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